How to Inspire Oneself Despite Problems

I am a person who encounter problems all the time, but it does not put me to lose hope.  Problems for me are created  in order for someone to become stronger in the future.  Why did I say that, simply because i experience that myself.  But it depends on your personality, because if you will face the problem in an opposite way, the result can be reversed.  There is a saying that "Problems can make or unmake you."  Do you believe in that saying?  Well, for me i really believe in that saying, because it depend on you to decide what tract will you follow, to be stronger despite problems? or to give up?

In my observation, people who have high self esteem tend to make problems as their way to become more stronger despite the difficulties they encountered, no matter how easy or difficult that problem, they have to strive more to become more successful, but people who have  lower self esteem tend to revenge.

How will we inspire ourselves when we are in problematic situation? Is it possible?  First, think that God has another plan for you.  Example when you are not promoted to a higher position because your boss selected somebody else for the promotion, just think that God has plan for you more than that promotion.  Even if you already tried your very best but still in the second time around still don't work.  Still you don't have to lose hope an give up. You still to strive more. Why did I say that? Because I am also a victim of that situation, but I don't give up.

Second, think about your family, your children, your parents they still love you.  In the lowest point in your life they will help you, just ask their help.  Especially parents, they don't want to see their children to suffer pain.  No matter how hard headed you are, parents can feel the pain too.  They have to ease the pain by comforting you, just don't lie on the true situation.

Third, focus on the positive side not the negative side.  Always think that it is just a matter of testing your capabilities, attitudes, strengths and weaknesses.  Focus on your strengths, try to improve your weaknesses.  Be positive all the time.  Believe that there is law that govern positive thinking, it is the "law of attraction."  Once you think positive, all the positive will be attracted to you.

Fourth, think that in every difficulties there is always goodness that awaits you.  Our problem usually is, we did not recognize the goodness that comes to our life, we tend to focus on the problems.  Let us be contented of the little success that we achieved.

Lastly, believe in yourself.  No matter how difficult is the situation still we have the capabilities to solve the situation, because God will not give us problems which we can't solve.  God is the one who knows us, HE knows what is best for us.