How to Build Trust?

Are you not wondering, why your parents, friends, co-workers and people surrounding you, don't trust you?  Have you not examine yourself? Are you telling the truth to them or are you hiding something from them?  What are we going to do in order that people surrounding us or our love ones will trust us?  

Let me sight one of my collections of inspirational quote:

"If you wanted to be Trusted,

Be Honest.

If you wanted to be Honest,

Be true.

If you wanted to be True,

Be yourself."

So whats the secret of gaining trust? It is just being honest in everything that you do, no matter how small or big the task given to you or something.

A parent will not hesitate to give money to his daughter or son if he trust the child.  If you told your parents that the money is for your tuition fee, it should be intended for that matter.  Transparency between parents and children is also very important so that trust can be built. Not only about money which we should consider, including deeds and actions.  Don't lie to your parents about your girlfriend or boyfriend, we have to be open to our parents especially on that matter.  The more you hide the more they will get angry and will not trust you.  

For husband and wife or in a relationship, it is not only about money that they should be honest about.  We should be true to our feelings, we should not do actions that we will regret later on or will result in distrusting us.  It is very difficult to regain again trust.  Don't play the emotions of your partner, don't tell them that you love them if you don't, tell the truth.  Once they find out your true feelings, your partner will be hurt, and this will lead to distrust.  In the first place, you should not court a girl whom you don't love. Don't play emotions, that's the most difficult to handle.  Sometimes our values, attitudes and self-esteem is affected because of this.  

Even in an organization or work, we can only build trust if we are doing the right thing. How could your boss trust you if you are always lying to him about your being late, being absent and not doing your job well.  If you have a problem which is the cause of your failure in functioning your task, tell them the truth.  Your boss will understand you, and may even help you to solve your problem.  

So what the secret of building trust? It is only by being honest.  Although it is very difficult to be honest.  Once you practice everyday and leave with it, it is no more difficult. And you will notice that you will become happier than before.